Be a responsible parents

Many of the married couples want to have kids. And when they really have kids, they like to put their kids under their parents' care. It's alright if your parents are still young and healthy. And most importantly they are willing to help you out.

But some are simply ridiculous. They "force" their parents to take care for them their kids. Have they ever thought that their parents are already old and tired after taking care of them for so many years? It is not their responsibility to take care the kids for you but it's your responsibility to take care of the kids yourself. I know many married couples are working but it doesn't mean that they can just shirk their responsibility as a parents.

Taking care of a kid is not a easy task. You need to have a lot of patience and energy. Our parents are already very old. It's time for them to rest and enjoy their old age. Yes, they can help you to look after your kids once in a while but not all the time. They have already taken good care of us for years and it's time for us to "repay" them by letting them to enjoy their old age and not ask them to "work" some more.

I don't mean to offend anyone in this post, but i just want to say that if you want to have kids, please take up the responsibility yourself. Do not put this heavy burden to your parents. They need to rest too.

This is one of the cases where their children keep taking their parents for granted by asking their old parents to look after their children. Their old parents already going to be 70 yet they still need to "work". Plus their mother already not in good health. The old parents have to go to their house to take care of their children's children. Plus, they are not staying in the same country nor same states. Can you imagine how tired this old parents are. I feel sad and heartache when i see the old parents.

I feel like punching their children !...