Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Is Having Babies Really that Important?

I have been asked by many people this question "When are you going to have babies?", "Do you have any plan to have babies?" Well, i don't know how to answer and i am not sure how to answer.

But all these while, i have been asking myself this question, "Is having babies really that important?", "Without children, life will be meaningless or it's not like a family anymore?". Until now, i have not found any answer to these questions.

Many of us have our own perception. Some people by choice not to have kids and some people can't have kids. Before asking them this question, "When are you going to have babies?", "Are you pregnant?", ask yourself this question first, "Are you close with that person?", "Do you know him/her very well?".

Some questions are not meant to be asked. It can be a very sensitive question to certain people. If he/she has kids or she is pregnant, i am definitely sure she will want to share the happiness with everyone of you. So, instead of asking, pray for her. I am sure she will be very grateful.

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